The “goods” every girlfriend should have.
(finally, took me forever to write this enjoy) (:
miss independent-I don’t think any boyfriend want’s a girl they have to babysit. She doesn’t constantly go after you. You know, making you feel “suffocated”. Ladies if you can’t function without your man-thats a surefire way to get his ass making a run for the nearest exit. You have you very own personality and opinions, you can stand on your own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and you have to enjoy time away from “him”— while still missing him, of course
She gotta good head on her shoulders-I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. You gotta be that woman who can meet him at an intellectual level. Instead of him being in complete control, try and have him figure out what you’re really thinking behind those glazed eyes of yours Keep him on his toes-don’t let him get bored of you. Unless, it’s nice to have something to talk about
“SEXUAL ACTIVITY” -To put it simply, it means that you and him have an undeniable attraction towards each other, and both of you can communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues). It’s important that you please each other in the bedroom, or on top of the dryer whatever the case may be.You want to “look pretty for your boyfriend”-Common as girlfriend you don’t just want to look good for yourself but for him too. You should always look your best and be well put together. Have him be proud to have you in his arms (not saying that he isn’t but you catch my drift)
R-E-S-P-E-C-T find out what that means to me. Err I mean him.-This is a biggie girls. Just like we demand respect so does your man.. This means gtive him your ear-listens to him, even if you don’t necessarily agree with what he’s saying. And, of course, never tries to demean or belittle him in any way, shape, or form. Cus you know if he did that to us, all hell would break loose. Oh and another major thing is don’t ever cause scenes in public or infront of friends, and family. I mean I’d hate if my boyfriend did that too me. If theres a problem, at least discuss matters with him in private.
Let him be a man-Do not — I repeat — do not try and convince him to give up a “guys night out” Give a break and stop hovering.. Trust me-he’ll end up resenting you more than you can imagine.[Take it from me i’ve done it before haha] Anyways, let him be guy in all his glory,guys night out and all. You have to understand that men and women are different and you should allow him to be yourself. Just like you wouldn’t him to deprive you of going shopping with your best girlfriend, so you shouldn’t expect him to give up the guys for yourself. Know what I mean??Don’t nag-There is nothing worse than a nag! Know how to choose your battles wisely. Know when to speak-up and when to let it slide. You don’t want be the girlfriend who will give him the heights of hell if he doesn’t call or text you every 5fucking mintues.
Get along with his friends & family-Hey go help his mom in the kitchen, listen to his dad’s stories, and hang out with his friends and actually ENJOY IT. Make a real effort to get to know and love the most important people in his life. Be the girl his friends like. You don’t want his friends rolling their eyes and moan when he mentions that you’ll be joining them when you get off work.
I love you, you love me…hopefully.-Love him for who he really is and not who he pretends or tries to be sometimes. Don’t try to change him. Of course, everyone has their slightly annoying habits that significant others have, but if you really loves him, you’ll be able to cope with his. Don’t play hard to get with him, if you love him then show it. And appreicate all the things he does for you, don’t take it for granted.
Number 1 rule of all.You make him want to be a better man-Simple and straight to the point-Any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn’t have to say or do anything; it just is that way. SO TO THE MEN OUT THERE-If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister or find yourself trying to get your finances in order, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so. It could be love.
Amen.
